November 19, 2011

The Very Quiet Cricket




When Aidan was a baby, we would read books to him every night. Most of his favorite books were by Eric Carle—The Very Hungry Caterpillar, Brown Bear, Brown Bear, etc.  When he was two, he picked up Brown Bear, Brown Bear and recited the entire book. He would flip to the next page to see what animal came next and then proudly say, “I see a ___ looking at me!”

As we approached his third birthday, he didn’t want much to do with books at all. He would flip the pages silently, and could no longer point to the book characters that I would ask about. I can remember reading him The Very Quiet Cricket with tears rolling down my cheeks. Aidan was now MY very quiet cricket. Would he ever be able to say, “hello” to anyone again? At that time, I could only hope.

Almost two years later, and Aidan has become my not-so-quiet cricket. I thought about this last night as we read books during his normal bedtime routine. I asked him, “What should we read tonight?” and he answered, “The story of the Very Quiet Cricket!” Every time he turned the page, he was telling me something new about each of the bugs—their colors, what type of sounds he thought they made, what they were doing in the picture. It was awesome! We don’t have nights like this all the time, but when they come, I breathe the moment in as much as I can.

My little cricket is no longer quiet. 

November 9, 2011

September, October, November…

We have been very busy with new diets, NAET, Neurology appointments, DAN! appointments, and I had the opportunity to attend the Austim Research Institute’s Fall Conference in Las Vegas.  When I say, “I had the opportunity,” I should clarify that I begged my husband to withdraw more money from our savings account because I knew I would gain new information to benefit Aidan. And I did.

Low Oxalate Diet
A little over a year ago, our nutritionist asked me if Aidan had an issue with oxalates. I had no idea what an oxalate is! When I read about the symptoms associated with eating high oxalate foods, it didn’t sound anything like Aidan.  Then, in September, I started to notice that Aidan would come home from school and go to the bathroom three times within a forty-five minute period. I thought this was odd, and I asked his teachers if he was doing this at school and they said no. Yet, every day when he came home he would pee three to four times within an hour. His mood swings had also become a problem again, and his bloated tummy and stomach pain would still come and go. I remembered that many parents who used this diet, had the same concerns- mood sings, constant uncomfortable urination and stomach bloating. When I looked over the list of high oxalate foods, all of Aidan’s favorite foods were listed as “high” or “extremely high” in oxalates. I decided to give the Low Oxalate Diet a try.

The first two weeks brought non-stop diarrhea. Apparently this is very common. After two weeks on the diet, my husband and I definitely noticed a change in Aidan’s mood. He was happy and engaging with much fewer meltdowns and mood swings. His stomach became FLAT. His tummy stayed this way for about a month, but now we are back to alternating Buddah Belly with a flat tummy. Most importantly, he began having such easy bowel movements. Aidan has always been a constipated kid (aside from the diarrhea experienced in the beginning of the diet), so this has been a wonderful improvement.

Our biggest obstacle now is trying to following a GAPS/SCD style diet while sticking to low oxalate foods. I am beginning to think this may be impossible. Right now, I am still making some things with rice and corn noodles. Hopefully I can figure out enough good alternatives after I finish ready Gut and Psychology Syndrome by Natasha McBride!


NAET
I love NAET. Aidan has completed four treatments, and his face and eyes look brighter. The dark circles are not as pronounced as they used to be. Even our practitioner was blown away by how healthy he looked at our last appointment.  We have also been able to reintroduce eggs without any issues. Now, I can’t say for sure if these changes are due to NAET or our recent diet (low oxalate) changes, but I really believe it is the NAET.

I have also completed four NAET treatments, and I feel really great. The biggest improvement (that still amazes me) is after seventeen years of getting eczema any time I consumed dairy, I can eat cheese with no eczema at all!

Neurology
Not much to update on here. Aidan successfully (I am still SO proud of him) completed a one-hour EEG with no sedation. The Neurologist wanted him sedated and when I told him I didn’t feel comfortable with sedation he said, “I’ll humor you. You can try it without sedation, but most kids with ASD need to be sedated.”  Aidan was a trooper! He sat patiently while the tech put all of the little electrodes on his head. I was pleasantly surprised. We are still waiting for the results.

Our new DAN! Doctor
About nine months ago, I told Aidan’s doctor that I did not feel comfortable with IV chelation or high dose chelation. At that point, he told us that we could follow the Andy Cutler protocol, but that he could not support us, and he didn’t feel like it would pull enough metals to make a difference. Then, (after my worms in the poop incident), I told Aidan’s practitioner what had happened and said that Aidan also fits many of the symptoms of having parasites. He told me I would have to do another stool test to see if parasites showed up. Huh? If you read even the most basic book on parasites, you would know that chances are it ain’t gonna show up in a stool sample. So then I asked if I could put Aidan on a natural parasite tincture and he recommended things that are normally used for treating bacteria. No mention of Black walnut, wormwood, pumpkin seed, etc.  That was the turning point. I knew we needed a new doctor. I didn’t care if we had to fly half way around the world and pull more money from our savings, I wanted the BEST doctor for Aidan. Someone who knows about all of the things that I am interested in exploring with Aidan- Andy Cutler chelation, homeopathy, natural antivirals, energy testing…


After asking people who had recovered their kids, “Who is your doctor?” I found that the majority gave two names. However, one of the two really stood out because their practice supports Andy Cutler chelation, homeopathy and energy testing. Since we starting working with a local Naturopath that does energy testing, I have realized how beneficial it is for Aidan. It helps give me guidance on what his most pressing issues are and what supplements are a good fit for him. I know this sounds a little hippy dippy and spacey, but it works!


So, we had our first appointment with our DAN! Doctor. I say “we” because she is now my doctor too : ) and it was exactly what I hoped for. She asked us so many questions, and really seemed to listen (and truly hear) all of our concerns. The appointment concluded by energy testing every supplement that she thought would help Aidan (and myself). During our visit Aidan and I were both tested for Cerebral Folate Deficiency. I decided to take the test with Aidan because I want to have more children and thought it would be helpful to see if I show any abnormalities in this area.

Things we found from Aidan’s appointment:

-       Aidan still has major yeast/bacteria/gut issues and is also believed to have parasites. We cannot treat the parasites until yeast/bacteria is better under control. We have a new protocol to address this, and the doctor recommended looking into a GAPS diet.
-       Some of Aidan’s energy testing came up positive for Lyme. I told the doctor that this was always a suspicion of mine since Aidan’s regression.
-       Aidan’s Urine Toxic Metals challenge are “higher than any other patient I have seen!” This is now the second doctor to tell us this : ( We really need to get the lead OUT!
-       We are going to continue to put chelation on hold until his gut is in better condition.
-       We need to treat his adrenal fatigue with natural supplements 

September 18, 2011

Why some with Autism are not Recovering...Parasites

Here is an interesting article from the Homeopathy Center of Houston that someone shared with me. It discusses many of the signs and symptoms of parasites. They believe that some of the kids labeled as "non-responders" to biomedical interventions could have parasites.

Click Here to read the article

Um…is that a worm in my poop?!

Yes, worms! WORMS people! I have always suspected that Aidan had parasites because he fit many of the symptoms (pale, dark circles under eyes, night waking, teeth grinding, anxiety...). We have done parasite cleanses in the past, but I never saw anything come out in his stool (or mine) and I never noticed any real improvement in his symptoms.

Now, before I go into our worm story, I have to say that never in a MILLION years could I bring myself to share this if my blog was not 100% anonymous! I am very shy when discussing things like…um…worms…and…poop. However, I promised myself when I started this blog that I would be completely open and honest because the whole point of this is to help other Autism Moms (and Dads) who might be dealing with similar issues. So, here goes…

Like I mentioned, we have done 30+ day parasite cleanses. We have used tinctures containing things like wormwood, black walnut hulls, clove, male fern, pumpkin seeds, etc. Nothing ever came of it, so I figured I was barking up the wrong tree. Then, two weeks ago, I took Aidan (and myself) for an appointment with a Naturopath who is trained in NAET. I wanted her to work on Aidan’s multiple food allergies, and also see if I had many allergies.

During our first visit she treated Aidan for BBF, and she treated me for fear. We left the appointment, and while we were driving home I experienced a warm tingling going up and down my spine. My neck and shoulders had been tight for days and all of the sudden it was gone. I felt great! I was shocked! 

The next morning I woke up and felt absolutely AWFUL! I had no energy, and my muscles felt so weak and sore. Thank God my husband didn’t have to work because I could barely function! I drank a ton of water with lemon and took milk thistle because I figured that my liver must have been congested. I laid in bed almost the entire day, and even took a nap (and I NEVER nap). The next morning I woke up feeling a little icky still, but not as bad. Went to the bathroom, and there it was…a dead worm in my stool. What the…..!?!?!???! As soon as I saw it, I realized that I was experiencing die off the day before.  I couldn’t believe it! I had done two separate parasite cleanses with NOTHING, but now I have one NAET treatment, and she was able to clear parasites from my body! As if that wasn’t enough, the next day (still feeling a bit icky and tired) I eliminated another one! After that, I felt MUCH better. Clear-headed. Energetic. Happy.  As soon as I had my energy back, I directed my efforts back to Aidan’s biomedical needs. Obviously if I have worms/parasites, he does. What the heck am I going to do to go after them?

I decided to give it another go. I started him on a parasite tincture about a week and a half ago (since we were approaching the Full Moon). The last two cleanses, I have attempted to give him the tincture transdermally. This time around, I am making the poor kiddo take it orally. He hasn’t been too irritated by it, but I know it is disgusting. My husband can barely get it down! I am also hoping that our NAET practitioner will do a fear treatment on him to help clear out anything that’s left.

I am really hoping that this could be the reason for many of his food sensitivities. Ever since I cleared the parasites, I have been able to eat foods that used to give me stomach pains with no problem. Let’s hope it’s the same for him! 

In just one week on the tincture, his mood has evened and the dark circles under his eyes are gone! He also seems to have so much more energy during the day.

I have been reading a great book called, "Guess What came to Dinner?" and it is incredible the amount of similarities between parasite infestation and the common health and behavioral symptoms of ADHD and ASD.  According to this book, everyone is at risk for parasites. If you eat out, have pets in the home, eat lots of fruits and vegetables...all of these things can lead to parasites.

Why don't they cover this in the DAN! protocol? : )